Why do people assume that because your looks are different love has something to do with it?
Love is actually a very stressful thing to go through, yes we tend to make more effort when we are suddenly interested in someone, but that’s not always the case.
How about mental health? When you have your shit together, when you’re doing things because you feel good; exercise, eating healthy or going to sleep at a decent hour, those types of things tends to do things to your body and your mind. And the mind is a powerful thing.
Why is it that when you’re happy with someone other notice and are suddenly interested in you?
Happiness is not necesarily love.
Being healthy for a long period of time makes people notice, because there’s new found confidence, you suddenly like yourself, accept flaws; yours and others. When you finally decide to live your life, follow your own path people notice but the funny thing is that the first thing they are quick to think that someone has caused the change in you.
You don’t need someone else to make you feel you’re enough.
Once you define your value, and add tax people notice. They may no like it but at that point nothing will make you lower it.